It’s time for a “90-Day Fiancé” update!  If you don’t know what that is by now, shame on you!

As I’ve told you on multiple occasions, “90 Day Fiancé” is a show about people who hit the internet to find their soulmate. Not just any soulmate—one from another country.

So, depending on the franchise you’re watching, you’re either following the couple as they try to get a K-1 visa so the foreigner can move to the U.S. and get married within 90 days, or watching how life is after their marriage, or watching as the American decides to move to their partner’s country instead.

That’s what we’ll be discussing today, class. Open your textbooks to “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.”

I’ll be giving you a breakdown of the season so far this week, but for the blog post, I wanted to do something a little different.

Can I just leave some parting words that will cause you way less stress if you’re looking to date internationally? Thank you.

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Know Before You Go

This goes for every relationship. You need to know who in the world your partner is before you make life-altering plans for them.

If your partner has proven to be immature or bad-tempered or irresponsible, how much more will those traits come out in person?

We have whole adults moving to other countries, with children in tow, knowing that they are going to a person who hasn’t gotten his or her act together.

Love may be blind, but it doesn’t have to be blind, deaf and mute.

Embrace or Disgrace

If I were visiting another country, I’d do a little research about laws, living conditions, latest news, etc. I mean… that’s just normal, right?

What I don’t get is how people decide to up and move to another country thinking that their American selves will never have to conform one bit.

When in Rome…

Obviously, you’re supposed to keep your morals intact, but some Americans seem straight disrespectful when in foreign countries.

“Oh goodness. This is the bathroom?”

“People live here?”

“I’m American, so I won’t be doing that.”

 “I don’t feel safe here… or here… and definitely not here.”

Stay in America then! And how do you move to a developing country expecting the same spoils of suburbia?

Make it make sense.

What’s the Plan, Man?

Speaking of not making sense, how do you move to a new country with just hopes and dreams with little to no means?

I can’t imagine packing my life up, moving away and living off a tiny savings.

With the people on this show, there are hardly ever any work visas in progress or jobs in the works.

I don’t know what they expect to do. Plus, when you get to the other country, it seems like it’s a little too little too late.

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If love is in the air, sense needs to be too. And this season, it is very apparent that all these rules have been broken in one way or the other.

Like I said, I’ll break it all down one couple at a time in this week’s video. If you watch “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,” do you know the people I’m talking about? Do share. LOL! 👂🏾