Imagine someone telling you about a job that has plenty of perks, an equal amount of challenges, no time off and no pay. Would you take it? Well, put it that way, and I wouldn’t; but I signed up for motherhood anyways. Three times actually. (Did anybody find my sleep? I seem to have misplaced it. ...
All’s Fair in Love and Football
Football is king in Texas. I’m starting to learn that some families will do whatever it takes to get their kid inside the royal court—even at the tender age of 5. My oldest son Jayden started playing sports when he was 4. Since he was interested and full of energy, we enrolled him into soccer. ...
A Clapback for the Snapback
You know what’s annoying? People who act like being pregnant is equivalent to taking a shot of euphoria as they walk amongst the lilies and meadows. “Oh my gawww… It’s the most amazing feeling in the universe. I just can’t wait to meet this perfect bundle of joy in person.” That was never my reality. No, ...
The Neverending Tug of War for Attention
They told me that having children would be a major financial commitment. They told me that having children would drain my energy. (And they were absolutely right.) But what they didn’t tell me was that children require a ridiculous amount of attention. Multiply that by three, and you see my pain. I don’t know how you ...
“Where’s Papa’s Girl?”
... And still doesn't know where papa's girl is. :) To be a mom is to be alert. At. All. Times. You always have to watch out for imminent dangers, foster a safe environment and be your child’s number one advocate. 👍🏾 Whether it’s at school, the doctor’s office or the store, parents have the final ...
A Fine Line Between Paternity Leave and Vacation?
The title may seem like I'm trying to be shady, but I'm not. I truly am interested to hear people’s response to this one. What is everyone’s take on paternity leave? 🤔 Don’t get me wrong. I absolutely believe that men should be permitted time off to bond with their child. It just depends on how ...
The Fourth Trimester
Fourth trimester? Yes. You’ve been lied to this whole time, pregnant women.
The Why Behind My Winter Wonderland
I’m just going to continue with this post as if I haven’t been dormant for six months. I now realize how Jesus must feel when we repent and then do the same sin all over again. Help us, Lord! So the Christmas bug has hit the HOPEsaidit household. 🎄 I was determined this year to not say ...
“L” is for Father’s Day
Ladies, I took the sacrificial "L" for you all today. I completely forgot about Father's Day. ? I blame the lack of media really. I didn't watch television all weekend, so there were no reminders to let me know that it was Father's Day. (It may sound like a weak excuse, but I'm sticking to it. ...
What God Has For You is For You
Next week, my 12-week maternity leave will come to a close. It's been great, and I know I've been blessed to be able to take this time off. I'll be going back to work with no anxiety, fully rested, ready to pick up where I left off. That reminds me of the last time I ...