Why didn’t someone tell me that I missed a post last week? I was so caught up with life that I forgot to get on here. No worries! I’m back AT it this week, and we’re talking about some marriage killers. Marriage is a beautiful journey filled with love, companionship and shared dreams. Yet, like ...
The “MRS” Degree Debate
One topic that keeps making its round back into the forefront of conversation, especially pertaining to Black women, is the idea of pursuing the "MRS" degree in college. The term "MRS" degree traditionally refers to the idea that some women attend college primarily to find a spouse, often with the expectation of marrying shortly after ...
10 Ways to Strengthening Your Marriage Connection with Emotional Intimacy
Call me crazy, but in a relationship, emotional connection is so much more important than the physical connection. Now, don’t get me wrong. Physical connection is definitely important. That’s usually how the connection is made anyways. But relying solely on the physical isn’t how a relationship lasts. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a ...
Natural Hair Tips that Didn’t Work for Me
Stop jumping on every natural hair trend. That "natural hair guru" does not have your hair type, and that wash and go is not for you, sis. LOL! Here are some popular natural hair care tips and tricks that DID NOT work for me. (And let me add that just because it didn’t work for me, ...
New Adulting Level Unlocked: Becoming a Juror on a Murder Case
I didn't mean to go silent on you. These last two weeks have been a doozy. For one of the weeks, I was out Monday through Friday as a juror on a murder case. (I know...I know.) And then the following week, I worked on posting a three-part super mini series about that entire experience. Part ...
The Secret to Thicker, Healthier Hair
There’s something about thick hair that makes every woman want to drool. And women with thick hair want thicker hair. What kind of sick game is this? HA! Well, let me tell you something. 🌱 Thick hair comes in two parts: the thickness of your individual hair strand (coarse or fine) and how many of those ...
Things You MUST Do in Your 20s and 30s for Adulting Success
You’re not a teen, but you don’t really feel like an adult yet. Welcome to young adulthood. This phase of life is filled with opportunities for growth, self-discovery and setting the stage for your future. It can be a time where a lot of people feel lost and confused. If that sounds like you, you’re ...
Navigating the Slump of Marriage: Rediscovering Connection and Joy
Did you miss me? I didn’t post last week because I was getting my kids ready for the new school year, but I’m back with another hot topic that a lot of married couples face, You’re a few years into marriage, and the honeymoon phase is over. Mix in a career and kids, and you’re starting ...
Shrinkage: An Unexpected Sign of Healthy Black Hair
Ask any natural-haired woman with kinky hair, and she’ll tell you tales about her shrinkage. It can be the “make or break” of a good hair day, and it can be an annoying reality on wash days. For me, shrinkage varies all around my head. I would say I have about 50% shrinkage in most areas ...
Money-Saving Tips for the Everyday Mom
Juggling a whole bunch of responsibilities while maintaining a household budget isn’t easy; and saving money is essential for financial security and providing the best for your family. I tried my hand at being an extreme couponer. (And by tried my hand, I mean, I clipped a few things here and there and prayed for the ...